How I secured my place in the field.

Well, this is just an incident i would love to share with you all. Thankyou for reading :).

I’ve always had this passion for football, maybe much more than the boys who play better than me in the park everyday. Even after being told by practically everyone not to go play with them, i picked up myself rather confidently hoping no one would notice the scared and awkward girl behind that tough wall. Not hard to guess, they said they dont play with girls. That actually hit hard on my esteem, bit quite unbashed i tried my best to fit in. I fell, and picked up myself without complaining. Everyone would make fun of me, constantly reminding me i dont belong here. Some of the boys did realise my love for the game was bigger than my ego and had no other choice but to pass the ball occasionally.

Nothing has changed; i still fight everyday, i still fall, help myself, get occasional passes and high-fives, but now the boys are used to my presence and i am used to their attitude.

Now i’m the only girl they would play with and wait for to come down in the same confident way everyday.

20 thoughts on “How I secured my place in the field.

  1. Great jobb dubey I knew u were talented but I never thought that muchh anyways gudd job girll all the bestt…

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  2. I can understand the things one has to go through especially being a female and this creates barriers …
    The society like ours keeps this ticking backwardness going .
    Success and luck ahead .

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    1. Thank you.
      If everyone is ready to break these social barriers together and include everyone else in the mainstream, we’ll be able to achieve equality for all in no time
      I hope people try and understand the differences others have to face and work together to build a better society, and I appreciate your view πŸ™‚

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  3. Till the society will not forget the discrimination between girls and boys the count will remain Like that but from the day when society Will finish I assure girls will get everything respect and admiration and then only India will be a developed country

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  4. Till the society will not forget the discrimination between girls and boys the country Will remain Like that but from the day when society Will finish all the discriminations I assure that girls will get everything, respect ,admiration and love in the society and then only India will become a developed country

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  5. Good for you, standing your ground. I do hope some other girls follow suit if they want to play, too. πŸ™‚

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